Having alopecia can be emotionally challenging and lead us to experiencing some tough times. Practicing self-care involves adopting strategies that nurture your mental and emotional health. Here are some practical steps:

Daily Habits for Emotional Well-Being

Mindfulness and Meditation. Practice mindfulness by focusing on the present moment. There are mindfulness and meditation apps, guides and books that can help you to establish regular practice. If you are finding that you are struggling to think of anything but your hair loss, mindfulness or meditation can help to give you a break from those thoughts for a while. 

Regular Physical Activity. Engaging in activities like walking, yoga or dancing can boost your mood and reduce stress. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week. Research shows that physical exercise can boost self-esteem, improve mood, lead to better quality sleep, and increase energy levels.

Healthy Sleep Patterns. Establish a consistent sleep routine by going to bed and waking up at the same time every day. Create a relaxing bedtime ritual, such as reading or taking a warm bath, to signal to your body that it’s time to wind down. Sleeping better gives us more energy and lifts mood, making us feel more able to cope with things life throws at us.

Building Emotional Resilience

Positive Relationships. Spend time with friends and family who uplift and support you. Set boundaries to protect yourself from toxic relationships. 

Express Your Feelings. Keep a journal to write down your thoughts and emotions. Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist about your feelings. Or consider joining one of our peer support groups

Engage in Enjoyable Activities. Make time for hobbies and activities that you enjoy and that bring you pleasure. Try new activities to stimulate your mind and boost your mood.

Practice Gratitude. Keep a gratitude journal where you write down things you are thankful for each day. Reflect on positive experiences and achievements regularly. One of our volunteers Gemma has written this blog all about how practicing gratitude has helped her. 

Coping Strategies for Stress and Anxiety

Relaxation Techniques. Practice deep breathing exercises to calm your mind and body. Think about the things that make you feel relaxed and make time for them. Perhaps a soak in a bubble bath or a yoga class, whatever makes you feel calm and relaxed. 


"I treat myself to a massage every couple of months. I told the therapist straight away that I had alopecia and would be more comfortable with my wig off and she wasn’t phased at all. The relaxation (and chats!) that I get from the sessions really helps my mental wellbeing." 

Time Management. Prioritise tasks and break them into manageable steps to reduce overwhelming feelings. Use tools like to-do lists or planners to stay organised.

Limit Negative Influences. Reduce exposure to negative news or social media that may increase stress. Surround yourself with positive and inspiring content.

Seek Professional Help. Consider therapy or counselling if you find it difficult to manage your emotions on your own.

Self-Compassion and Self-Understanding

Be Kind to Yourself. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend. Avoid self-criticism and recognise that everyone makes mistakes.

Set Realistic Goals. Set achievable and realistic goals for yourself. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and acknowledge your efforts.

Accept Your Emotions. Allow yourself to feel and process your emotions without judgment. Understand that it’s okay to have bad days and that emotional ups and downs are a part of life.

Stay Connected to Your Values. Reflect on what is important to you and ensure your actions align with your values. Engage in activities and behaviors that are meaningful to you.

Creating a Supportive Environment

Declutter Your Space. Keep your living and workspaces clean and organised to promote a sense of calm. Personalise your space with items that bring you joy.

Nature and Outdoors. Spend time in nature to rejuvenate your mind and body. Take walks in parks, gardens, or natural settings to connect with the environment. It is amazing the difference being outdoors can make. 

Mindful Consumption. Be mindful of what you consume, whether it’s food, media, or information. Choose nutritious and/or delicious foods, positive media, and informative content that uplift you.

By incorporating these self-care practices into your daily routine, you can prioritise your emotional well-being and build resilience against stress and the emotional challenges that can come from living with alopecia.